Rape Culture – Cover Your Eyes

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Rape culture is when I was six, and my brother punched my two front teeth out. Instead of reprimanding him, my mother said “Stefanie, what did you do to provoke him?” When my only defense was my mother whispering in my ear, “Honey, ignore him. Don’t rile him up. He just wants a reaction.” As if it was my sole purpose, the reason six-year-old me existed, was to not rile up my brother. It’s starts when we’re six, and ends when we grow up assuming the natural state of a man is a predator, and I must walk on eggshells, as to not “rile him up.” Right, mom?

Rape culture is when through casual dinner conversation, my father says that women who get raped are asking for it. He says, “I see them on the streets of New York City, with their short skirts and heavy makeup. Asking for it.”…

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I can still remember when I was in high school, I used to fantasize creating a blog site of mine. And now that I fulfilled this one, I’m not that sure if I am totally happy since there is a big change in my desires. College life and career talks made me forget about this hobby.. But since it is summer and I just recently finished my internship, here I am. Maybe my passion for writing isn’t really gone. On the other hand, I’ll be more happy to share with you what is happening with me. And maybe, I can still develop what I have despite the long period I was engaged into academics. Yehey for me 🙂